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Originally Posted by FireFly
Also, I find it funny how all of you who are saying don't go to a bar to find a man, all have a story about yourself or someone you know finding someone at a bar. Obviously it's not a bad spot to meet people, or you wouldn't have met anyone either. It's just something I'm trying. I'm not putting all my hopes on the bar scene.
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I was one of those who said dont go to a bar to find it, and then followed it up with saying I met my current gf at the bar. It's not that it is 100% not going to work, its just that the odds arent great. Yeah I met my current gf at a bar and its going great, but I've(and I'm sure many others on here) have also been burnt many times by people they met from the bar scene. I mean I'm 25 so I've experienced the bar scene for awhile now, and obviously in that time have had my share of getting phone numbers and going on dates with these people, and this is the first time its actually turned into a good, solid relationship. I think my ratio of meeting girls and having it turn into a good relationship has been alot higher at other places than from the bar, hence the warning.
Its not that everyone at the bar are a bunch of idiots or something, thats now what we're saying at all. I think its just that the general theme of people there are still in party mode and just looking for a little action, not really to settle down at the moment. Hence why its not an ideal place to look for "Mr/Mrs. Right" at.