I remember watching a video clip in school a few years ago about building friendships. It stated that females build friendships to bond and relate to the others while males build friendships based on like interests. It said a bunch of other stuff too but that statement pretty much hit the nail right on the head with me at least.
So, how do you make friends? Do what you love, alone, and meet people doing the same thing! Other than high school, university and work friends most of the guys/gals I hang out with I've met through sports and hobbies. Like to ski? Go on organized ski trips. Like racing/wrenching your car? Join a tuner club. Like to ____? Join a ____ club.
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Originally Posted by gottabekd
People like friends. But don't try to force it. If you just don't get along with a group, stop hanging out with them. I'd rather be a loner than with people I don't gel with.
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Bingo! I'd rather do something I love before doing something with others just to feel like part of the group. Cliche time... you've got to know yourself before you can truly be known by others...