What is 'cheating' though? It is simply not that simple....
Having sex behind anothers back, from a disease/health perspective alone, is just wrong. Not to mention from a 'grow up and get some balls and just tell your former lover you are ######ing around and need to break-up' perspective.
Dating one person, meeting another, and then dumping the first to THEN persue a relationship with the later.... i have done that. I felt, and still feel, like crap for doing it but that's life.... Especially when you are young, i don't think you can spend too much time being responsible in the face of new experiences, people, and general excitment like that of a new relationship... live is just to short, you will spend more time regreting never doing ANYTHING stupid or crazy then you will feeling bad over the hurt parties feelings.
As i get older the attraction wains, and if/when there are children involved it is definitely a no-go, you have got to grow up eventually and be a man, not just a boy with an over-active penis....
Claeren.
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