Make time for yourself. Don't sacrifice everything you like to do because your "supposed to". Make sure your wife takes time for herself as well. Don't feel guilty about any decisions you need to make as a parent.
Your mom and mother in law mean well but will be filled with horrible ideas that make you cringe. Don't listen to them but they do mean well.
Also and this will be impossible for you to do right now but don't worry about stuff. As delicate as a baby looks their tough and it's pretty hard to screw up. You realize when you have the second one that the baby stage is pretty easy. So enjoy it and try not to stress yourself out if you are doing everything right.
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