A few of points I'm not sure is comforting, but may help in the future. They helped us.
One, it will affect your next pregnancy. Not medically, but you'll both be worried. It's ok. You'll get through that.
Two, the reason they used to say 3 missed periods is that if the fetus is still viable at 12 weeks, the risk of miscarriage drops. That's when you can let put some breath.
Three, make sure she knows it's not her fault. That guilt can be awful and there's almost no chance it's anything she did. Watch for that even if she says she doesn't out of bravado
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