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Originally Posted by PepsiFree
No. Calling her overweight and unattractive might be "justifiable" to you, but it certainly isn't respectful, so calling out a story that lists negative details about someone while calling someone overweight and unattractive is hypocritical. You can't have it two ways, either the act is disrespectful or not, if it is, you've been nothing but, if it isn't, you've got nothing to complain about.
There is no smear. This man has zero public persona. At worst, his personal feelings will be hurt. Otherwise he isn't named, no picture is shown, his reputation is in no danger whatsoever. If his feelings matter, why don't hers? What gives you the right to say disrespectful things, knowing they would hurt someone's feelings if seen, while criticising someone else for the same? Because you believe you're safe in the anonymity of a message board? So it's ok to say things behind someone's back if you think they won't find out? but not if they might?
That's not at all how being "respectful" works, and I'd learn how it does before criticising others of their failure at it.
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If her feelings matter why don't his?
I get that her motivation is to out a shady company but she's the one that brought the attention to this so her actions will cause his feelings to be hurt. Not the other way around.