I ended up going with one of the cheap chinese ones on Amazon that looked the closest to the original Sony remote, and I was pleasantly surprised. IR remote functions worked right out of the box, it paired as a bluetooth remote very quickly, and the buttons aren't total trash. Course as soon as I had it setup the original remote started working just fine again, so I guess the new one sits in a cupboard until the original ####s the bed again
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